Does Instagram Change The Way We Perceive Our Lives

Starting with an example of a girl who used to be chubby and some kinda heavy. Her better part was her confidence and her skill of staying extrovert . So it might be hard for others to let her down. But she knows how to let her down and she will never reveal it. Because that girl is writing this blog and she always wants to keep her confidence on fire. 

The story depicts her weight loss journey 

I don't know what did hurt me but I decided to look more confident , in the eyes of everyone. 

Instagram needs fake validations. So i convinced myself to get those validations. 

Looking at beautiful Instagram bodies , bodies which either have thick-slim-thick figure (omg Kylie Jenner, please don't look at me ) or dashing bodies having perfect abs , I always wanted to post a full picture of myself. And honestly even being so confident , I always hesitated to post a full body picture. I never wanted to get defamed in the eyes of outsiders.

Who are outsiders now ?

Simple answer is they are outsiders themselves and have zero rights to interfere in the way which makes me . I could understand it still it was always in my mind ," Don't post it anyway. There are people having better body figures than you ." 

Now get out of this emotional story. I've lost 14 kgs and look so confident and have posted a lot full body pictures in my sister's wedding. 

Has confidence come back to work after a long vacation ? Naah , it was always here in myself but was put under the veil intentionally by the fake Instagram bodies who have set some standards and obviously I used to fall below those standards.

This fear of rejection stays on fire always. 

I think this fear might change my perception towards my life. And there maybe others girls who could be waiting to post full body picture . Instagram isn't allowing them .

Oh my goodness.

How happy Rahul(example) looks . Maybe everything is going nicely and his finances  are provided timely.  He has a good girlfriend. Who knew Rahul would do intentional murder next day because some Anjali took "pyaar-dosti" concept so seriously ? 

Rahul met his Anjani on Instagram . They talked , became friends and tried to love each other. I don't know what happened but Instagram stopped giving help to them and Anjali left her Rahul. What could Rahul do--- 

To find his new Anjali on Instagram itself ? LoL . 

He could but he went somewhere else. 

These are one Rahul-Anjali . There are many who are dying everyday. 

Instagram lies us , it can make better contacts. Sorry Instagram, you've made me hate my old friends. You couldn't handle them at their place and pace. 

Better were those days when my grandpa used to sit with his friends in the evening and talked to him and told brave stories to us.  I don't know which guy wants to talk to me in DM whom i don't give a shit. 

Instagram is giving false hopes to humans that they deserve some better partners. 

False hopes change perception one could aspire for himself in his/her life. 

I am a writer. And I know people assume about me a lump of positive vibes. People assumes how clear she is and how brightly she writes. She can relate everything and writes beautifully. 

Her mental health sounds good. She is out of anxiety and doesn't care about other's mindsets. 

Who knows the behind the scenes of me? 

I reveal what I reveal there , not what's going on in my mind . 

Recently i wrote a quote and people liked it so badly.  I knew why I wrote those two lines. What was happening in my mind ?

I don't know the number of people of whom confidence I've put under waters. 

I hope they get recovery soon. 

I tell you , nobody tells their bad days . They are always kept secret. Good days are introduced to the world so nicely that they look the best. And who does that? Social world makes a person low esteemed in the world and creates a negative image of one's in his/her own eyes.

You know Behind The Scenes look quite offensive in this Instagram society . They are meant to be judged. Judges are real world  residers themselves always try to invest in highlights which are shown by you. 

You get happy you've revealed your highlights when you were not down. Judges and you both are happy . Content is totally fresh . 

But what if I'm not okay today , should I tell judges that , I'm not okay. I promise you won't tell them.

Because real world isn't allowing you.

You hide Behind The Scenes. 

You know some of my friends regularly do night out or they keep doing get together.

Then they hang out , burst into some cocktails , do hookaahs and consume substances many a times. 

They make another group.

Now some of my friends are damn rich , that they travel a lot. Their one foot remains in Shimla and another one in Ooty. Their Safari looks some charming . Their rafting hastens my heartbeats . Their Dhaabas almost put my saliva out of my mouth.

Oh , stop it man .

Now some of my friends are so skinny still they can be seen at any food stall. Living in Delhi , it's so common to eat 24*7 and just 24*7 . But they eat unlimited and always try to find something new taste and variety of food. 

You know while I was telling about my friends , i was getting jealous and thinking what my study table can serve by only sitting here( I know what I want) , still those pictures keep coming in mind...

Instagram , you're doing this. You're changing perception about the world. 

Instagram can easily breach a lot of people at same time . Instagram can make thousand humans proud of being not at their home . Also , Instagram can cut even minimum confidence of a human being sitting on his chair . 

Now human sitting on the chair would keep thinking about above given examples and would forget that he/she needs to explore about himself/herself. 

Instagram stops one to explore differently about oneself and tries to teach everyone that they have some traits , HuH.

How immature Instagram behaves sometimes. 

And many more examples can be included in this blog but I need to stop as word limit stops me and could be a hurdle to win this competition and my Instagram is already waiting for fresh content to make jealous others about my good fucking mental health. 

Instagram is this time allowing me to win this contest because this u would change perception of many humans and it's plan will be executed so simply. Hats off. 

But don't worry judges, I'm not on the Instagram these days and hence chose this topic. 

But social media is so fake ; freaking and fucking fake. 

And nobody is required to give validations this time to Instagram because Instagram knows itself. 

I have convinced myself. I hope you all too. We are meant to accept ourselves and truly admire and love ourselves. Instagram is just a media to connect with our blessing givers. 

We can't fake in real lives and real lives can't fake Instagram standards. 

Always Try To Admire The Present You Are Living .

Thank You 

                                                          -Chetna